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[disneydream06]

Seriously?????
So does that also make gays sexists because they don't want to have sex with women?
UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

"No Blacks" Is Not a Sexual Preference. It's Racism.

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2015/09/09/no-blacks-is-not-a-sexual-preference-it-s-racism.html?via=newsletter&source=DDMorning#

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[ashmedai.livejournal.com]

Oh FFS! I'm generally not attracted to men outside my own race - sexually! We're talking preference for certain physical attributes here, nothing more. That has nothing at all to do with "racism", that's ridiculous. I'm not generally attracted to white red-heads either, or to most blond guys, or to beefy gym bunnies, or to guys with facial hair or a lot of body hair. So what? Do I really have to pretend to be attracted to everyone, so that nobody feels maligned or gets their PC panties in a wad? If I had a dating profile (which I don't), would I put "no black men, asian men, etc." on it? No, because there are always exceptions, and if I wasn't attracted to a guy for whatever reason, I can always politely decline.

I'm so tired of all this pressure to bend over backwards and tread on egg shells in order to be "oh so PC". It seems to be a US thing, though, I never encounter that in Germany.

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

There is a time and place for PC, but this is not one of them.
I am attracted to some Black and some Asians, but then I am not generally attracted to Eastern Indians, and like you not really a fan of Red heads. Ain't gonna lie about it. :o

[ashmedai.livejournal.com]

We shouldn't have to lie. I don't know who this person is who wrote the article, but they don't seem to understand a simple concept, that we all have specific "types" we prefer and that it has nothing to do with racism.

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

Exactly. :o

[mlknchz.livejournal.com]

So one HAS to sleep with people to whom one is not sexually attracted so as not to be considered "racist"?

BULLS**T!

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

Exactly. :o

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

when i was being polyamourous actively, and had posted an ad to find someone, i had a couple of african-american gentlemen meet up with me.

and i did not go out with them. why? because at that time i was only having a few issues getting around, and when i asked their opinion of a good time on a date, all three of them mentioned clubbing-type activities. i can't tolerate loud music, i couldn't stand up for lengths of time at *that* point (much less dance actively), it was not a great match. i said so, gently, and they accepted it. all of them, with thanks. why?

because i was honest and polite, and all that they were out was a trip to a wendy's and their own sodas. (hey, it was not a date, therefore i'm not making them put anything out on me)

i have a granddaughter whom i adore. the babydaddy is african-american. (never met him) i don't give a rat's ass.

at the same time? people are attracted to what they're attracted to. the end. i've married 3 guys...first was half italian. second was half italian. third is half mexican. but the guys i dated where not necessarily italian or mexican. my type is not so easily pinned down LOL

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

I have a physical type, but that doesn't mean race. :)
I like my guys to have muscles, so I am not going to be attracted to a little twink. :p

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

and now i am going to make you laugh till your balls fall...

my email is "ladytwnks" no lie. because mama tried real hard to raise me ladylike, and she called me twinkletoes because i walked on my tiptoes till i was 4 years old. my heels never touched the floor!

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

LOL..........
Did you want to be a ballerina or something?

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

i actually took ballet for 3 years. then we moved and i grew tits.

(seriously, i went from a slight AA to a solid B over christmas break my 8th grade year. people thought i got kleenex for christmas to stuff my bra! i just said "santa thought i was a very good girl" LOL!!)

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

LOL... Santa was pleased with you. :p

[fallconsmate.livejournal.com]

santa was bad enough...but the pregnant ladies' booby fairy was stupendously generous, B to a DD. freaking ridiculous!

(i'm still a large C/small D. and bra manufacturers fucking suck ass about standardizing sizes about as bad as other women's clothing people do!! when a person can wear anything from a size 18 to a size 26, it's pretty fucking stupid.)

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

I am so glad I don't have to deal with womens' clothing sizes. OMg!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[davesmusictank.livejournal.com]

What utter fucking bullshit. Who are these people?

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

Obviously somebody who got turned down by somebody he wanted. :p

[calcifermagnet.livejournal.com]

"So does that also make gays sexists because they don't want to have sex with women?"

You obviously haven't heard of the "Cotton Ceiling." It's an argument that re-writes the definition of 'lesbian' to be a person-whose-gender-identity is female is attracted to person-whose-gender-identity is female. A transwoman with a penis is therefore a woman with a penis, and any lesbian who finds that uncomfortable is 'transphobic'.

Reading the article you posted, it brings up red flags immediately: "Edwards tried to push back..." against someone who said he wouldn't have sex with him. If people say "no sex" you stop. Full stop. You don't "keep pushing" to over ride their no.

[thespian15.livejournal.com]

If people say "no sex" you stop. Full stop. You don't "keep pushing" to over ride their no.
That really says it all right there. No matter who is involved. No means No.