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Birth Order, Is this you???

I can kind of see me in the middle child, but I don't really see my older and younger brothers in these descriptions.


Eldest children are socially dominant, highly intellectual, and extremely conscientious. Unfortunately, they’re also less open to new ideas, and prone to perfectionism and people pleasing—the result of losing both parents’ undivided attention at an early age, and working throughout their lives to get it back.

Middle children, sandwiched between older and younger siblings, often develop a competitive nature, making them natural entrepreneurs later in life. They tend to be the most diplomatic and flexible members of the family and often, eager for parental praise, develop musical or academic gifts.


Youngest children, according to birth order theory, tend to be dependent and selfish—as they’re used to others providing for them. But despite the negatives, they’re also quite often the life of the party—fun, confident, and comfortable entertaining others.

And only children? Like last borns, they are regularly spoiled, according to Adler, and have a hard time when they don’t get their own way. School can be a particularly difficult transition, as they’re used to being the center of the familial universe. But all that parental focus pays off. Only children are often mature for their age. They wow people with their vocabularies and their comfort in adult circles. Plus, all that self-entertaining fosters creativity.
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Date: 2011-02-09 07:01 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
*waits patiently for birth announcement*
hehehe...

Date: 2011-02-09 08:22 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] changeling72.livejournal.com
Well, I'm the youngest of two. I'm not sure I fit any of those models.

Date: 2011-02-09 08:35 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
There always have to a trouble maker.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Date: 2011-02-09 07:22 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] silverfae.livejournal.com
I'm an only but my parents went out of their way to may to sure I wasn't spoiled. However, yes, I was way advanced in my vocabulary and far more comfortable with adults than other children.

Date: 2011-02-10 02:00 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] clowndust.livejournal.com
I can sort of agree with it. Being the eldest child.. I wouldn't say I'm "socially dominant".. but yes, in my own ways I'm prone to perfectionism and am prone to please others.

Date: 2011-02-10 07:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
That so does not describe my older brother. LOL.........
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