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Sep. 29th, 2014 09:09 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
disneydream06Can somebody PLEASE explain to me why people go out of their way to friend me here and then out of the blue dump me?
I think I have always been more then supportive of the friends on my LJ.
How does somebody check out out my journal, follow it or my responses in other journals, think enough to want to friend me, and then some time later dump me because apparently I have said something that they can't stand?
Seriously?????
I think I have always been more then supportive of the friends on my LJ.
How does somebody check out out my journal, follow it or my responses in other journals, think enough to want to friend me, and then some time later dump me because apparently I have said something that they can't stand?
Seriously?????
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Date: 2014-09-30 02:19 am (UTC)and that upsets the zombies
so hugs to you!
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Date: 2014-09-30 06:11 am (UTC)Agree 100%
Date: 2014-10-01 07:12 am (UTC)Could be a variety of reasons. I've had people "defriend" me because they want his or her life to be more private, or it's time to move on, or lack of anything common.
Who knows.... untill you ask... could be just being done with LJ all together.... hard telling...
thinking of you.
Re: Agree 100%
Date: 2014-10-01 07:26 am (UTC)Got a little some 'em some 'em for you by the way. :)
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Date: 2014-09-30 05:33 am (UTC)It's like Mark is saying though, sometimes you add somebody and at some point you find yourself skipping through their entries. When you start doing that, you often have no connection with that person.
Although, i always think you need to give it some decent time before you delete someone. You often find you have a connection after all and you are happy you didn't remove the person.
still... not thinking of removing you!!!
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Date: 2014-09-30 06:13 am (UTC)Sadly, I think religion reared it ugly head in this case. This person was much more conservative then myself, and apparently he didn't realize that when he friended me. :o
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Date: 2014-09-30 06:29 am (UTC)no subject
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Date: 2014-09-30 07:05 am (UTC)Don't let it get to you.
HUGS
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Date: 2014-09-30 07:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-09-30 11:09 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-09-30 02:26 pm (UTC)My explanation
Date: 2014-09-30 07:53 am (UTC)Then, after some time, I noticed my reading list (as "friend list" is so wrong way to call it in my case)had gotten too long and some entries I just rolled over, not reading them ... and that meant it was time to weed the reading list.
Of course, those people whom I was reading never commented my entries or friended me back, so probably it was different situation from yours.
Re: My explanation
Date: 2014-09-30 07:55 am (UTC)Re: My explanation
Date: 2014-09-30 08:02 am (UTC)I am very upfront about my views in my journal, so not sure why, if that is the case, he would friend me in the first place. Oh well.....
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Date: 2014-09-30 12:30 pm (UTC)But I can definitely agree that you are very supportive of your friends here ♥
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Date: 2014-10-01 08:01 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-09-30 06:24 pm (UTC)that is on THEIR little pointy head, and not yours. i have people who add me that i NEVER add back, for whatever reason. and i nearly ALWAYS ask first, because i'm odd like that.
anyway i obviously survived the flu shot/tattoo, even though it took me a full day of "fuck you, not moving" to do so. to the point that al took care of the wee dog most of last night after he came home...and i normally do the majority of the dog care!
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Date: 2014-10-01 08:03 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2014-10-01 12:38 pm (UTC)But I'm sorry it happened :(
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