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My world came to a crashing halt today.

I took my mom in to the ER last night. She had been fighting a cold for a couple of days and early this morning she felt like she was having trouble breathing.
Once at the ER it just seem to continue to get worse. They wanted to do an xray, so they sent me out to the waiting room. While I was out there my mom coded, although they didn't tell me.
After waiting for a good half hour, they came out to get me. They took me into another exam room and the doctor told me that my mom had passed away. Out of no where...

My mom is gone.

What do I do now?

Please bear with me if I am absent for awhile.
I just don't know what I will be doing.

Date: 2013-01-01 07:50 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] owlstorm_9
Remember - You are not alone.

*BIG HUG*

Date: 2013-01-01 07:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much.
HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 08:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] techgirl-on-ij.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry! I'm right here if you want to talk.

Hugs

Date: 2013-01-02 02:41 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 09:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dorisduke.livejournal.com
What do you do now is always the hard question.

I suspect the best thing to do is what you might be doing now. Cry, wail and let yourself all the time you need to come to terms with this most hurtful loss.

If you have support seek it if this is your way.

But most of all take care of yourself and be well.

Date: 2013-01-02 02:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 10:17 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] restoman.livejournal.com
I am so sorry, Jon. My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

*HUGS*

Date: 2013-01-02 02:44 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 10:21 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thirteenrocks.livejournal.com
Jon I am here to listen, for a shoulder to cry on, or to hang out. Thinking of you and praying for you!!

Date: 2013-01-02 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much Kevin.
I may take you up on that some time.
HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 10:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] later2nite.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry, Jon. You must be devastated. I hope you can rely on trusted and close RL friends to talk to. And we're here, too. Your LJ friends can help you cope with the loss of your mom. I wish there was more I could do.

Hugs you,
Linda

Date: 2013-01-02 02:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-01 10:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] classical-wolf.livejournal.com
You do what you need to do - whatever it is ♥♥♥

Loveyou!

Date: 2013-01-02 02:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 12:20 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] irishbiker.livejournal.com
My thoughts are with you now take care.

Date: 2013-01-02 02:48 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 01:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dan4behr.livejournal.com
Oh my gosh... I am so terribly sorry - this is devastating to hear. My heart is with you Jon...

Date: 2013-01-02 02:49 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 02:50 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] clowndust.livejournal.com
I am so sorry for your loss, Jon. My thoughts and prayers are with you tonight. *HUGS!*

Date: 2013-01-02 02:51 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much Jennifer. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 04:06 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] twinner.livejournal.com
I'm very sorry, Jon. Thirteen years ago, I lost my Mom in similar circumstances; I was working nights & she had been sick all week with what she thought was a cold; on the last morning, I saw her (before I went to bed for the day), she said she felt better & thought she was getting well. When I woke up, I found her lying upon the floor in the living room. She had died of a sudden heart attack. So, I know how you feel -- she was suddenly gone & I felt lost & bewildered,too but I got through it, & I know you well enough to know you'll get through it ---it just takes time; so be brave & remember you have friends here at LJ...

Date: 2013-01-02 06:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
{{{HUGS}}}
Thank you so very much Patrick.
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Date: 2013-01-02 06:54 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 04:46 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] penelopes-web.livejournal.com
*hugs you tight*
really wish I was closer :(

Date: 2013-01-02 06:55 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so very much. {{{HUGS}}}

Date: 2013-01-02 02:01 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elkster.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry, I know this is hard to deal with. I don't comment much, but my thoughts are with you and your family.

Date: 2013-01-02 02:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so very much. HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-02 10:39 pm (UTC)
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From: [identity profile] maymorning.livejournal.com
I am so sorry. You take as much time as you want. I'll be thinking of you.

Date: 2013-01-03 01:05 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so very much for your kind words and thought.
HUGS...

Date: 2013-01-03 04:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ellierachael.livejournal.com
I know I've already said so over on FB but I really am so sorry to hear this Jon and I really hope you and your family are doing ok.
Take as much time as you need. We will all be here waiting when you feel like returning to LJ and we're here if you need to vent x

Date: 2013-01-03 09:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so very much Ellie.
All of my friends have shown me so much love and support. I am so grateful.
I have been thinking about trying to tackle some of my friends journal entries, then I work through my emails and just don't move on to LJ. Also the fact that LJ has been acting up again. :(
The family seems to be holding up pretty well. Yesterday we had a meeting with the funeral director and today we met with the pastor at the church. We are having a memorial service for mom on Saturday. I am kind of not looking forward to that. I think it's going to be tough.
HUGS.....

Date: 2013-01-07 04:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] oxkrissy.livejournal.com
Oh no!! :( I'm SO sorry for your loss. I'm sorry it took me awhile to respond. I'm praying hard for you!! :/ I couldn't even imagine!

Date: 2013-01-07 04:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thespian15.livejournal.com
Thank you so very much Kristen. HUGS...
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